Why is it so hard to get to know yourself?

Why is it so hard to get to know yourself?



Have you ever sought for your own identity? Since most people don't know their own selves. The most of us would say is yes, but that response might be no more than their name, age, birthplace, or occupation in life. But a very fascinating subject is who we actually are.

While knowing others is supposed to be intelligence, knowing oneself is really wisdom and knowledge. Still, recognizing yourself is the hardest chore in this planet. We are alone ourselves since, even if we know everyone, we are strangers to someone. May never meet ourselves; we are still strangers to the spirit inside each of us all our life.

 
Understanding your own identity comes before knowing what others know and view of you. Some people regard their conscious awareness as their biggest threat since their ego is so strong. Their ego never lets them reach themselves. Since he is working alone, he proves to be his own best villain in his own narrative—one without an enemy.

Most people do not know who they are or why they behave the way they do in life; so, finding your identity is quite difficult effort. Our elders have always taught us to talk truth to ourselves. Still, how many of us really follow this? Most people believe they have spent their lifetime knowing everything about themselves. Actually, though, the reality is somewhat different. Understanding oneself does not mean understanding your preferred book, color, etc. To know yourself is to know the depths within, thine inner heart.

To handle issues in life, we have to start looking inside ourselves. Examining ourselves will let us much more easily understand why anything happened to us in the past. We can solve our innermost concerns and strengthen our contacts with others. Over his life, a person deals with several issues. It relies on his perspective—that of advantage or disadvantage.

An optimistic person constantly sees every challenge as a chance for personal development. A pessimistic individual, on the other hand, views every issue as a barrier and assigns blame for every error, omission, and neglect right away. Everyone else is incorrect, he believes. He doesn't see himself flawed.

Maulana Rumi argues that you live inside everything in the cosmos. Though self-discovery is challenging, it is not unachievable. This procedure will make you discover your inner self and your kind of person.

Better decisions and a better life can follow from improved knowledge and awareness of oneself. Trust develops daily by means of this approach. You only know about your limitations and talents when you fully know yourself. It helps you to see your preferences in your life. Thus, give yourself some time in life and investigate your inner existence.


Knowing oneself helps us to really understand the world. Other people start to seem as our brothers and sisters. We start to experience life from a point of view whereby everything seems different and limitless. The best power is knowledge of yourself. You have to know yourself with your shortcomings as well as your positives. First you have to learn yourself. You will then be able to correctly relate to the people around you. Just concentrate on your own self.



Actions towards Personal Discovery

Understanding oneself, values, dreams, and goal requires self-discovery. These actions will help you to travel this road:

1. Inner Thought:

  • Writing often helps you to lower stress and improve mental clarity.
  • Practice mindfulness to see ideas free from judgment and help to lower stress.
2. Defining Fundamental Values
  • Use instruments like the Rokeach Value Survey to pinpoint fundamental values.
  • Think back on past events to grasp fundamental values by dissecting important turning points in life.
3. Looking for comments
  • To know your strengths and shortcomings, compile comments from family, friends, and colleagues.
  • Speak with a professional coach to learn about areas of blind spot and development.
4. Investigating Passions and Interests
  • Experimenting with several interests and activities will help you find passions.
  • The Clifton Strengths Assessment might help you to find your innate skills.
5. Declaring Objectives
  •     SMART Goals: Set specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound objectives.
  •     Create visual representations of your aspirations and goals using vision boards.
6. Constant Learning
  • Take classes and seminars to hone knowledge and abilities in formal education.
  • To widen viewpoints, read books, journals, and articles as well as studies.
7. Adopting Change
  • Changing with the times and see obstacles as teaching moments.
  • Training in resilience will help one to overcome obstacles and enhance mental health.
8. Developing Bonds

  • Surround yourself with encouraging individuals if you want development and pleasure.
  • Ask seasoned people in your field for direction and knowledge.

Self-discovery is an ongoing path of inquiry, education, and development. Starting now will help you to realize your actual ability and lead a happy life.


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